Sugarmommas – are they right for you?

So, I’m getting some feedback from incoming googlers that Sugarmomma.com should, in fact, be all about sugarmommas and how young hot dudes can find a rich lady to take care of them.

AskMen.com has an interesting article on the subject. It mainly says that if you want to find a hot rich older lady to take care of you:

  1. Be hot
  2. Be fit
  3. Embody a sense of fun and youth
  4. Balance that with an aura of maturity
  5. Make her feel special
  6. Don’t dwell on her wealth

I’m sure there are guys who naturally gravitate towards these behaviors. The rest of you potential sugar-baby-dudes, it looks like, will have to practice these behaviors. It’s a combination of:

  • having drive
    • to find a sugarmomma in her natural habitat where other rich folk hang out
  • luck
    • to find an individual sugarmomma who desires this arrangement
    • to find a sugarmomma who likes you
    • to find a sugarmomma who you like
  • the correct psychology
    • to give your sugarmomma what she needs (psychologically, socially, sexually, etc.)
    • to not feel emasculated by being supported by a woman

As for the morality of a sugarmomma/sugardaddy situation, if both parties are clear on the relationship’s expectations, I see nothing wrong with it. I’m sure some of these relationships go smoothly, and some are rocky as hell. Managing a relationship is generally a difficult endeavor, especially when your efforts are not driven by love (though, some people could be driven by a pure love of money).

Any sugar-baby-dudes out there? I’d love to hear your sugar-baby-dude input.

{ 58 comments… read them below or add one }

Bigg Poppa March 2, 2007 at 5:04 am

Finding a lady of quality is what most men want. Subsequently, I suppose a lady also wants the same. I believe she desires a man who is not merely interested in what she possesses, or lacks the confidence or ability to make her feel special. Having said this, her money or possessions should never be the motivation for your’s or her happiness. She should always be treated with the upmost respect and made to feel, let me re-phrase that, she should believe that she is the most significant woman in the world, confirmed through your actions and words. While having a woman of means may be what you desire, one should not necessarily see her as a sugarmomma, because if what she possesses validates you, then you are worthless to begin with. Choose to view her as an equal and therefore she has value to you as a man. Remember these three words. Dignity, Respect and Charm. Losing either one of these will cause failure to what should be an enjoyable relationship.

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James March 7, 2007 at 8:07 am

Wanting to find a few good websites that explain the best ways/places to attract/begin contact with a sugar momma… Any good suggestions?

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bryan - sugar baby - March 23, 2007 at 6:29 pm

anywho i need a suagr momma myself, have had them in the past. what do u mommas need from me?

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Larry May 11, 2007 at 7:31 am

What’s this site about

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Gerald May 14, 2007 at 8:39 am

As, I read these articles about sugarmommas. It makes me feel like you guys only hit the main points. What you really have to do is get into her mind ex.. “you should feel what she feels” having a sugar momma is more than having a new bank roll. Treat your sugarmomma as you would treat any past relationship with any lady. but im a try to keep it simple as any relationship try to keep up the spice you know every relationship has good times but also keep in mind how many good relationships have problems ex..”have little arguments over small thing then make it up with sexual lust” that will make her want you more…..

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AgentOO June 22, 2007 at 2:47 pm

A lot of men dream of finding a sugar-mama who is the total package, but like most people they don’t pursue their dreams relentlessly. Fellas It rarely happens without some ambition, maturity, creativity, and humility. The fact is you are going to be embarking on a journey that will definitely take you places never imagined and sometimes you might not even want to go. You can find a woman who will support you anywhere, WOMEN LOVE to spend money…grocery stores, golf courses, malls, concerts, nail salons, gas stations, etc. etc; however the key is to take an interests in her immediately, almost like she is your favorite sport. Make her feel special and wanted. Give her some attention, sincerely compliment(like about a piece of her clothing) make her laugh, listen to what she has to babble about, do something spontaneous (like kick a soccer ball at her). Get her involved with you as fast as possible this is war guys and you want to engage (Battle of the Sexes) like W in Iraq, be willing to do almost whatever it takes until you have her. As the guys mentioned earlier don’t concentrate on the money factor because she WILL KNOW that’s all you are after, and WILL SPOT you coming a country mile away. By default woman’s nature is to be nurturing so when one likes, and more importantly trusts you; follow the yellow brick road to being among a group of us elite men in the universe. Guys although being provided for is one of the ultimate goals DON’T dwell on it concentrate on awesome sex and the rest will soon come. Give her the hot nymphomaniac fuck of the century that she has always craved (USE A CONDOM and do it as many times as you can get it up). This is a win/win situation at this point,( like 50 cent said, KNOW if you can hit it once you can hit it twice).
Guys here’s where it gets a little challenging because this is where you have to swallow some pride, remember you are not the 1st man in between her thighs and that you are not going to be the last. She is going to be very vulnerable at this point and might have feelings of guilt, confusion, or even suicide. If the latter is the case put your hanes on immediately and don’t look back(CRAZY BITCH might need Prozac) however if it is the others spend the few moments in bed cuddling and comforting her (make her feel secure) The key here is to make her think about you not only as an AWESOME FUCK, but more importantly ,as a caring man. I am not saying lay there forever but invest your time so that she will invest in you (give a little to get a little). If you have any game make her some breakfast or bare minimum some coffee. Every-time she has sex w/ next man from this point on she will think about your dick 1st.
When she leaves exchange numbers (SMILE BIG and genuinely THANK HER, MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL) sincerely compliment. Initiate the first call unless she beats you to the punch let her know you are thinking about her. Guys be prepared because you might get more than you bargain for, I did.

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sugarmomma June 23, 2007 at 5:15 am

Thanks for your comment, AgentOO. It’s true – a sugarmama is an investment. If you invest some skills and caring, you will get so much in return!

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sugarmomma June 23, 2007 at 5:17 am

Hey James, excellent question about the best ways/places to attract/begin contact with a sugar momma. I will be compiling some resources for you soon. Stay tuned!

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sam July 16, 2007 at 12:26 pm

i am a classy, articulate, handsome, respectful guy. who is interested in a sugarmama. 46 years old and have no trouble taking care of myself, but the idea of that kind of relationship fascinates me. where do i start?

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sugarmomma July 17, 2007 at 2:45 am

Yes, Sam, a sugarmama-sugarbaby relationship is endlessly intriguing! Keep your eye on this site for references to where to find ’em!

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scotthollywood August 16, 2007 at 8:56 am

I am 42 yrs old and I would also like to know, where do I start? I am a physically fit 42 year old and I would like to find a sugarmomma to prove that to. Are there any sugarmommas who can take care of me mentally as well as FINANCIALLY?
I could be your handyman of sorts.Is that sugarmomma you?

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Ethio September 4, 2007 at 2:35 am

I love to GET kool but Hot on bed Sugermamy

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Woody September 14, 2007 at 12:55 pm

Sugarmamas are easy to find, if you know where to go and what to say. But to keep them, that is your problem. Really, Sugarmommas are right for me because even if I have any money, she can be able to still be with me, because she is lonely. Then I got her and she got me too.

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Randy September 18, 2007 at 7:48 am

I have a question and it is not meant to offend anyone .
I am a butch and would like to know if there is a site for lesbian Sugarmamms?

I am so tired of being hit on by the teenie bobbiers and would like to meet a refined lady that can fullfill my life.
As I said please do not take offense to my question please.

Thank you in advance,

Randy

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sugarmomma September 18, 2007 at 7:54 am

Hey there Randy! This site is for sugarmamas of all persuasions, we accept every kind of refined lady! With that in mind, I’m seeing that this is a popular subject.

Now that I think of it, would people be interested in me hosting a personals site here? Comment your answer by clicking below.

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Geta Job September 24, 2007 at 12:44 am

To all the lazy bums out there: Get a job!

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TOMMY POPE September 29, 2007 at 2:26 am

I have just began to contemplate the pros, and cons of a relationship with a sugarmomma. Quite frankly I can not see a downside to such a situation. Consenting adults know what they want out of a relationship such as we are currently discussing. As a man, do we not usually ask any woman we are involved with to take care of us in some manner? I’ll be worth every penny you could possibly spend on me, and I will guarantee your satisfaction in writing…let me send you my references.

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JEFF October 2, 2007 at 2:57 pm

HELLO MY NAME IS JEFF IM LOOKING FOR A SUGAR MOMMA IN DEED ONE THAT LOVES HARLEYS AND HAVEING FUN IM IN TAMPA FLORIDA

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CC October 26, 2007 at 1:41 pm

I am with Randy. I am a butch also and it has been very hard trying to find a real lady with class. My friends say I cant find anyone because I intimidate them and that they think I am too good for them. Well with most of them this is true because they are imature and have no goals in life except to party. I’m looking for someone to spoil with my affection and devotion that can also spoil me back.

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EJinthebay October 30, 2007 at 9:51 pm

I have always been interested/attracted to older women as lovers, and have often wondered what it would be like to be spoiled myself for once.
I just never met the right person I would feel comfortable in theis capacity.

Where does one start on this incredable life journey?

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Johnny Action November 30, 2007 at 4:14 pm

Hello,
All of you on this site seem very cool. I enjoy going to Palm Beach in the winter to find the perfect women to have fun with…that is what it is really all about, having fun and being nice to the ‘Ladies’. Then, you just seem to find the right one. It is so simple, just be yourself, take good care of yourself, and put HER first….that is the Johnny Action way, I am writing this from a Lear Jet my lady bought us. Merry Christmas J A

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michelle December 2, 2007 at 8:25 pm

I would like to add a comment about the women wanting to find a sugar momma.
As stated there seems to be quite an interest in women who want women of means and I am one of those women who would like very much to find a real site that will address that as well so I think it would be a good idea if one were put in place so that we could meet women of means who are not afraid to get with another female but not just someone who is a taker but a giver as well and for the men who just want a women for her money there are soooooooo many men who do that anyways that I think that is why alot of these women are very careful about whom they choose to spend time with.

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Eric December 6, 2007 at 2:45 pm

hello
i am Eric 33 educated fit from LA and i am seeking a very classy sugar momma
anyone knows where i can meet this ladies in LA?
i know there must be upscale bars coffees and restaurant who this ladies pick up their boys
anyone can help?
Thank you

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james December 24, 2007 at 6:15 pm

pls i need a beautiful sugar momma that would take care of my needs..

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cryp January 1, 2008 at 12:39 pm

i am cryp looking for a nice cute sugar momma,well i will apreciate if i have some free site to look for one from you.

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Leo January 18, 2008 at 6:43 am

Hey,i’m Leo, i’m 26, a male model, handsome, horny and erotic with athletic build.
I need a warm n fun-loving sugar mum from any part of the world preferably b/w (38-52 yrs),
she must be healthy, responsible and independent. Ultimate comfort & satisfaction is guaranteed. Please holla…

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rodger gammons February 3, 2008 at 10:00 am

I beleive life is an everyday challange,live life to it’s fullest! Set goals and achieve them.Be happy and pleasent.Treat others,as you want to be treated.I keep this thought with me daily,”If you do not like the way things are going,you are the only one who can change that”So respect is a major,daily,part in a relationship.If there is no harm to yourself or others,and you can both agree on the same thing,then go for it.Because,usually,if you can be yourself,and you have nothing to hide,likely your a happy person.If you add some respect,in there,usually you get it back.Everything will fall into place,if we keep it all in order.So ladies,lets get this started,lets get togather,get to know each other,and enjoy life,we won’t regret any of it

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yemi March 2, 2008 at 8:37 pm

Kudos to “AgentOO”. Soon as I read the first few lines of his response I sensed his veteran qualities. He was on point and I’d like to thank him for his words of wisdom. I’ve always dated older females for the most part but never a sugar momma. I have my head on straight and I strongly believe I am one of the “Elite”. My problem now is that I do not want to rely on pure luck in finding a sugar momma especially in a fast growing internet community which we find ourselves today. When I finally decided to settle down and have kids of my own I want to be the man of the house in every way. The bread winner, the one with the final say etc. Right now I’m 24 and I want to be taken care of in exchange for unbelievable love physically and/or emotionally. I want to sweep a grown woman off her feet. I know I can but how do I find one. Why isnt there a legit site to find such Women?

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p d March 8, 2008 at 5:43 pm

i have read these tips now how can i get to the site please let me know i’m interested in finding out what its like

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hassa March 11, 2008 at 11:04 am

love the important thing in this releationship between the tow notthe mony,

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shawn April 1, 2008 at 9:42 am

i see it as the older you get the more fun you need to have… life is only a second in the years gone by…as for me im only 24 and i am living my life to the fullest, and now i think i would love to meet an older woman and have a lil more fun. and maybe make them feel like they were 20 again. so contact me if your interested in haveing a great time.

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Ma Velvet April 4, 2008 at 10:53 am

I am a sugarmomma and have some advice for you younguns….treat her with respect, don’t fall in love, and leave when she tells you its over.

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TEX May 29, 2008 at 12:11 am

I have often thought this to be where I would end up(with a mature woman whom was better off than I financially). When I was younger 10-15 yrs. ago, I am 40 yrs. at present. I actually worked part time for an escort service, and had a handful of dates, over a couple year period, whereas the clients were women and paid handsomely for the expertise I posses with my tongue, would LOVE to hear any and all advice pertaining to this topic,as the internet has certainly opened up new opportunities, as I now believe maturity (not too much of it mind you) has given me my final “qualification”.

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wishfulthinking May 29, 2008 at 3:04 pm

ive had one sugarmomma before and from my past experience you really cant fine one. you have to hope they find you. at the time i really didnt know what was going on. the person found me by searching thru profiles. at first i thought it was a friend just messing with me. i was told to set up a paypal acct and then the cash started coming thru. then i started getting packages sent to my house. and then she was gone.

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ronald hamilton June 22, 2008 at 1:43 am

I am looking for the right web-site to meet sugar-momma’s classifies, and links. Also where can I meet them in Las vegas. I will not visit this site again,so can you please send it to my e-mail address.
Thank you

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S.M. wanted in Pittsburgh September 20, 2008 at 1:43 pm

I am a 28 year old male, college grad, and in good shape. I have always joked around about the idea of needing a sugarmomma, but have always had a thing for older women and money, why not combine the two…if anyone can point me in the right direction to get this rolling let me know. I can be anything you want ladies, crazy partier or mature sophisticant. You take care of me and i’ll take care of you!

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GARY February 26, 2009 at 3:25 am

I am a 29 year old male, university grad engineer, and in good shape. I have always joked around about the idea of needing a sugarmomma, but have always had a thing for older women and money, why not combine the two…if anyone can point me in the right direction to get this rolling let me know. I can be anything you want ladies, crazy partier or mature sophisticant. You take care of me and i’ll take care of you!

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That GUY April 23, 2009 at 11:36 am

Im a guy and ive been told that i need a sugar momma lol. I think that a website to meet them would be great. Im 18, in great shape, good hygene, funny, and i have long hair and im cheap ;)

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Michael September 13, 2009 at 9:34 pm

Hello. My name is Michael and i’m looking for a quote un-quote sugar momma. it’s not really that i have a love of money but more that i have to hard of a time supporting myself. My problem comes from mistakes that i made when i was a bit younger and those mistakes are really killing me. Not only do I have a problem with supporting myself but i also just love older women. Women in their twenties are just to immature and uncaring. What i want is a women that gives as much as she receives. I have a lot of love to give i just can’t seem to find someone to give it to. I’m not a picky guy. I don’t dwell on looks, i just want someone i can get along with and i’ve been told for years that what i need is a sugar momma, but the problem is that i do not know how to go about finding one. If you can help or if some woman out ther reads this and is interested then i would love to hear from you.

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Mimsy October 29, 2009 at 3:41 pm

All this seems to complicating. There are a lot of simple men out there like myself that just want to enjoy life and have fun without having to look into the check book. I wouldn’t expect a sugarmomma to support me, just spoil me and enjoy each others company at the same time.

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Kiara November 20, 2009 at 7:14 am

Well, I am reading this comments by curiosity and I asked myself, how can’t this men feel ashamed looking for stupid womans that want to expend her times with a robots, cause that is what they are robots. They do not have feelings, they do not work, they are only a figure to make her feel important. I think that this womans are so stupid expending money with somebody that do not feel anything for them. I preffer to go to a condom world store and buy something to my pleassure myself.

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CharlesB. December 27, 2009 at 2:37 am

I’m more or less just shopping around. This is all new to me but i’m interested… drop me a line

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lil daddy March 15, 2010 at 7:35 am

im looking for a sexy lil momma dat could handle this lil daddy holla!

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LadyLover March 27, 2010 at 8:17 am

As some of the autors before said. I simply cannot understand how a woman could be pleased by a money-oriented guy – which could be bought like a product. I for myself, no one could buy my feelings, my believs. I’m intelligent, eloquent, charming and it’s because of myself. I love woman above 40 up to 60 (of cause depends on her physis – a girl of 25 could look like 45 and vice versa). I really love the different character of a lady compared to a 25 years young girl. I love playing Golf, sitting in cafes, looking at art collections and so much more.
Of cause money does not hurt, I love good eating, nice clothing, nice home and accessoires.

In each case I have more to offer, than beeing just a sexual object .. maybe too yes.

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catoman52 June 15, 2010 at 3:22 pm

I am looking for a woman. No strings really just someone to take care of me. I am 23, fit, and military. I am from North Alabama. If you are looking for someone like me let me know ha.

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jaime July 11, 2010 at 6:42 pm

hi my name is jaime macias, male, 21 years old, hispanic, average, 5,9, single, looking for a women, between 21-40, hit me up, i live in monrovia cal. on the san gabriel valley, 626 394 97 90 .

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jaime July 11, 2010 at 7:19 pm

hi my name is jaime macias, male, 21 years old, hispanic, average, 5,9, single, looking for a women, between 21-40, hit me up, i live in monrovia cal. on the san gabriel valley, 626 394 97 90 …

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jaime July 11, 2010 at 7:19 pm

hi my name is jaime macias, male, 21 years old, hispanic, average, 5,9, single, looking for a women, between 21-40, hit me up, i live in monrovia cal. on the san gabriel valley, 626 394 97 90 ……

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woody anderson August 17, 2010 at 1:08 pm

im just so lonely that i need some one that is compatible for not only me but all the vice versa situations

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woody anderson August 17, 2010 at 1:11 pm

i just cruising for the right woman that might end up hit it off

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Valerie August 18, 2010 at 10:46 pm

I am a lesbian looking for someone to take care of me. I am 22 a lot of fun to be around and love great conversations. Looking for someone to help guide me through life. I live in Tampa FL.

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Mr.ReDd September 13, 2010 at 12:45 pm

Wuz good my name Redd, lookn fa a fun, older woman to show me what a good life got to offer.Im a 5’9″ stud with hazel eyes, light complection an like great conversation. so hit me im in H-town.

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Laika September 14, 2010 at 7:50 am

Just be aware that money is not “love”.

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king of the bedroom December 13, 2010 at 4:24 am

Hi ladyys my names is frank . im located n da midwest about st.paul minnesota 22yrs of age will b 23 on new years i am 6’2 and weight 190lbs. Brw eyes and long salt and pepper hair pass my shoulder. Verysmart looking n to becoming a model or male stripper or porn star i relly have the talent and the right size body parts for the job very handsome and outgoing always willn to try new things once if interested leave me a message

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temmy. December 30, 2010 at 4:28 am

i am looking for a sweet sugar mama…

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anonymous February 9, 2011 at 11:59 pm

hello to all…I am a lesbian as well…and I would love to meet a sugar mamma and it would be great if we could hit it off ya know…I am 22 years of age and I am very outgoing and spontaneous!! I love to try anything once…very beautiful if I must say so myself…I am mixed with a short cut into a mohawk…my style is very unique…if you would like to contact me please say so!! rainbow love

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Chris February 14, 2011 at 12:48 pm

Okay I stumbled in here as part of an inside joke and found out it was a real website…lmao…With that said my 2 cents is that all the money in the world cannot buy happiness….True love cannot be bought and has no price-tag. My inspiration for coming here is simple. I have nothing but my freedom and free spirit and good looks and good health. I live with passion and am more stimulated by a beautiful mind, body and spirit than whats in the banks account, but the fact of the matter I am a starving non-conformist that longs to live life with passion in the spirit of One-ness at total harmony with the infinite possibilities of the universe. Money is worthless to me and I am most happy when I am flat broke. So while I am poverty stricken and stumbled in I just wanted to post an original thought to distinguish me from the rest and allow a rich Sugar Moma an opportunity to experience what it means to enjoy the simple pleasures of life.

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Twirlygirl August 14, 2011 at 10:46 am

I am a successful woman and a sugarmomma. You all have this completely wrong. You are concentrating on what you want – some of the comments “I want someone to spoil me, to take care of me, blahblahblah. That is no way to land what you want. You should be able to offer accomplishment (you should be educated), confidence, fun, grooming, and attentive companionship. No lady of wealth and sophistication is going to want to hang with someone who isn’t polished or together himself and who is so obviously thinking only of himself.

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