Sugarmommas - are they right for you?
So, I’m getting some feedback from incoming googlers that Sugarmomma.com should, in fact, be all about sugarmommas and how young hot dudes can find a rich lady to take care of them.
AskMen.com has an interesting article on the subject. It mainly says that if you want to find a hot rich older lady to take care of you:
- Be hot
- Be fit
- Embody a sense of fun and youth
- Balance that with an aura of maturity
- Make her feel special
- Don’t dwell on her wealth
I’m sure there are guys who naturally gravitate towards these behaviors. The rest of you potential sugar-baby-dudes, it looks like, will have to practice these behaviors. It’s a combination of:
- having drive
- to find a sugarmomma in her natural habitat where other rich folk hang out
- luck
- to find an individual sugarmomma who desires this arrangement
- to find a sugarmomma who likes you
- to find a sugarmomma who you like
- the correct psychology
- to give your sugarmomma what she needs (psychologically, socially, sexually, etc.)
- to not feel emasculated by being supported by a woman
As for the morality of a sugarmomma/sugardaddy situation, if both parties are clear on the relationship’s expectations, I see nothing wrong with it. I’m sure some of these relationships go smoothly, and some are rocky as hell. Managing a relationship is generally a difficult endeavor, especially when your efforts are not driven by love (though, some people could be driven by a pure love of money).
Any sugar-baby-dudes out there? I’d love to hear your sugar-baby-dude input.
March 2nd, 2007 at 5:04 am
Finding a lady of quality is what most men want. Subsequently, I suppose a lady also wants the same. I believe she desires a man who is not merely interested in what she possesses, or lacks the confidence or ability to make her feel special. Having said this, her money or possessions should never be the motivation for your’s or her happiness. She should always be treated with the upmost respect and made to feel, let me re-phrase that, she should believe that she is the most significant woman in the world, confirmed through your actions and words. While having a woman of means may be what you desire, one should not necessarily see her as a sugarmomma, because if what she possesses validates you, then you are worthless to begin with. Choose to view her as an equal and therefore she has value to you as a man. Remember these three words. Dignity, Respect and Charm. Losing either one of these will cause failure to what should be an enjoyable relationship.
March 7th, 2007 at 8:07 am
Wanting to find a few good websites that explain the best ways/places to attract/begin contact with a sugar momma… Any good suggestions?
March 23rd, 2007 at 6:29 pm
anywho i need a suagr momma myself, have had them in the past. what do u mommas need from me?
May 11th, 2007 at 7:31 am
What’s this site about
May 14th, 2007 at 8:39 am
As, I read these articles about sugarmommas. It makes me feel like you guys only hit the main points. What you really have to do is get into her mind ex.. “you should feel what she feels” having a sugar momma is more than having a new bank roll. Treat your sugarmomma as you would treat any past relationship with any lady. but im a try to keep it simple as any relationship try to keep up the spice you know every relationship has good times but also keep in mind how many good relationships have problems ex..”have little arguments over small thing then make it up with sexual lust” that will make her want you more…..
June 22nd, 2007 at 2:47 pm
A lot of men dream of finding a sugar-mama who is the total package, but like most people they don’t pursue their dreams relentlessly. Fellas It rarely happens without some ambition, maturity, creativity, and humility. The fact is you are going to be embarking on a journey that will definitely take you places never imagined and sometimes you might not even want to go. You can find a woman who will support you anywhere, WOMEN LOVE to spend money…grocery stores, golf courses, malls, concerts, nail salons, gas stations, etc. etc; however the key is to take an interests in her immediately, almost like she is your favorite sport. Make her feel special and wanted. Give her some attention, sincerely compliment(like about a piece of her clothing) make her laugh, listen to what she has to babble about, do something spontaneous (like kick a soccer ball at her). Get her involved with you as fast as possible this is war guys and you want to engage (Battle of the Sexes) like W in Iraq, be willing to do almost whatever it takes until you have her. As the guys mentioned earlier don’t concentrate on the money factor because she WILL KNOW that’s all you are after, and WILL SPOT you coming a country mile away. By default woman’s nature is to be nurturing so when one likes, and more importantly trusts you; follow the yellow brick road to being among a group of us elite men in the universe. Guys although being provided for is one of the ultimate goals DON’T dwell on it concentrate on awesome sex and the rest will soon come. Give her the hot nymphomaniac fuck of the century that she has always craved (USE A CONDOM and do it as many times as you can get it up). This is a win/win situation at this point,( like 50 cent said, KNOW if you can hit it once you can hit it twice).
Guys here’s where it gets a little challenging because this is where you have to swallow some pride, remember you are not the 1st man in between her thighs and that you are not going to be the last. She is going to be very vulnerable at this point and might have feelings of guilt, confusion, or even suicide. If the latter is the case put your hanes on immediately and don’t look back(CRAZY BITCH might need Prozac) however if it is the others spend the few moments in bed cuddling and comforting her (make her feel secure) The key here is to make her think about you not only as an AWESOME FUCK, but more importantly ,as a caring man. I am not saying lay there forever but invest your time so that she will invest in you (give a little to get a little). If you have any game make her some breakfast or bare minimum some coffee. Every-time she has sex w/ next man from this point on she will think about your dick 1st.
When she leaves exchange numbers (SMILE BIG and genuinely THANK HER, MAKE HER FEEL SPECIAL) sincerely compliment. Initiate the first call unless she beats you to the punch let her know you are thinking about her. Guys be prepared because you might get more than you bargain for, I did.
June 23rd, 2007 at 5:15 am
Thanks for your comment, AgentOO. It’s true - a sugarmama is an investment. If you invest some skills and caring, you will get so much in return!
June 23rd, 2007 at 5:17 am
Hey James, excellent question about the best ways/places to attract/begin contact with a sugar momma. I will be compiling some resources for you soon. Stay tuned!
July 16th, 2007 at 12:26 pm
i am a classy, articulate, handsome, respectful guy. who is interested in a sugarmama. 46 years old and have no trouble taking care of myself, but the idea of that kind of relationship fascinates me. where do i start?
July 17th, 2007 at 2:45 am
Yes, Sam, a sugarmama-sugarbaby relationship is endlessly intriguing! Keep your eye on this site for references to where to find ‘em!
August 16th, 2007 at 8:56 am
I am 42 yrs old and I would also like to know, where do I start? I am a physically fit 42 year old and I would like to find a sugarmomma to prove that to. Are there any sugarmommas who can take care of me mentally as well as FINANCIALLY?
I could be your handyman of sorts.Is that sugarmomma you?
September 4th, 2007 at 2:35 am
I love to GET kool but Hot on bed Sugermamy
September 14th, 2007 at 12:55 pm
Sugarmamas are easy to find, if you know where to go and what to say. But to keep them, that is your problem. Really, Sugarmommas are right for me because even if I have any money, she can be able to still be with me, because she is lonely. Then I got her and she got me too.
September 18th, 2007 at 7:48 am
I have a question and it is not meant to offend anyone .
I am a butch and would like to know if there is a site for lesbian Sugarmamms?
I am so tired of being hit on by the teenie bobbiers and would like to meet a refined lady that can fullfill my life.
As I said please do not take offense to my question please.
Thank you in advance,
Randy
September 18th, 2007 at 7:54 am
Hey there Randy! This site is for sugarmamas of all persuasions, we accept every kind of refined lady! With that in mind, I’m seeing that this is a popular subject.
Now that I think of it, would people be interested in me hosting a personals site here? Comment your answer by clicking below.
September 24th, 2007 at 12:44 am
To all the lazy bums out there: Get a job!
September 29th, 2007 at 2:26 am
I have just began to contemplate the pros, and cons of a relationship with a sugarmomma. Quite frankly I can not see a downside to such a situation. Consenting adults know what they want out of a relationship such as we are currently discussing. As a man, do we not usually ask any woman we are involved with to take care of us in some manner? I’ll be worth every penny you could possibly spend on me, and I will guarantee your satisfaction in writing…let me send you my references.
October 2nd, 2007 at 2:57 pm
HELLO MY NAME IS JEFF IM LOOKING FOR A SUGAR MOMMA IN DEED ONE THAT LOVES HARLEYS AND HAVEING FUN IM IN TAMPA FLORIDA
October 26th, 2007 at 1:41 pm
I am with Randy. I am a butch also and it has been very hard trying to find a real lady with class. My friends say I cant find anyone because I intimidate them and that they think I am too good for them. Well with most of them this is true because they are imature and have no goals in life except to party. I’m looking for someone to spoil with my affection and devotion that can also spoil me back.
October 30th, 2007 at 9:51 pm
I have always been interested/attracted to older women as lovers, and have often wondered what it would be like to be spoiled myself for once.
I just never met the right person I would feel comfortable in theis capacity.
Where does one start on this incredable life journey?
November 30th, 2007 at 4:14 pm
Hello,
All of you on this site seem very cool. I enjoy going to Palm Beach in the winter to find the perfect women to have fun with…that is what it is really all about, having fun and being nice to the ‘Ladies’. Then, you just seem to find the right one. It is so simple, just be yourself, take good care of yourself, and put HER first….that is the Johnny Action way, I am writing this from a Lear Jet my lady bought us. Merry Christmas J A
December 2nd, 2007 at 8:25 pm
I would like to add a comment about the women wanting to find a sugar momma.
As stated there seems to be quite an interest in women who want women of means and I am one of those women who would like very much to find a real site that will address that as well so I think it would be a good idea if one were put in place so that we could meet women of means who are not afraid to get with another female but not just someone who is a taker but a giver as well and for the men who just want a women for her money there are soooooooo many men who do that anyways that I think that is why alot of these women are very careful about whom they choose to spend time with.
December 6th, 2007 at 2:45 pm
hello
i am Eric 33 educated fit from LA and i am seeking a very classy sugar momma
anyone knows where i can meet this ladies in LA?
i know there must be upscale bars coffees and restaurant who this ladies pick up their boys
anyone can help?
Thank you
December 24th, 2007 at 6:15 pm
pls i need a beautiful sugar momma that would take care of my needs..
January 1st, 2008 at 12:39 pm
i am cryp looking for a nice cute sugar momma,well i will apreciate if i have some free site to look for one from you.
January 18th, 2008 at 6:43 am
Hey,i’m Leo, i’m 26, a male model, handsome, horny and erotic with athletic build.
I need a warm n fun-loving sugar mum from any part of the world preferably b/w (38-52 yrs),
she must be healthy, responsible and independent. Ultimate comfort & satisfaction is guaranteed. Please holla…
February 3rd, 2008 at 10:00 am
I beleive life is an everyday challange,live life to it’s fullest! Set goals and achieve them.Be happy and pleasent.Treat others,as you want to be treated.I keep this thought with me daily,”If you do not like the way things are going,you are the only one who can change that”So respect is a major,daily,part in a relationship.If there is no harm to yourself or others,and you can both agree on the same thing,then go for it.Because,usually,if you can be yourself,and you have nothing to hide,likely your a happy person.If you add some respect,in there,usually you get it back.Everything will fall into place,if we keep it all in order.So ladies,lets get this started,lets get togather,get to know each other,and enjoy life,we won’t regret any of it
March 2nd, 2008 at 8:37 pm
Kudos to “AgentOO”. Soon as I read the first few lines of his response I sensed his veteran qualities. He was on point and I’d like to thank him for his words of wisdom. I’ve always dated older females for the most part but never a sugar momma. I have my head on straight and I strongly believe I am one of the “Elite”. My problem now is that I do not want to rely on pure luck in finding a sugar momma especially in a fast growing internet community which we find ourselves today. When I finally decided to settle down and have kids of my own I want to be the man of the house in every way. The bread winner, the one with the final say etc. Right now I’m 24 and I want to be taken care of in exchange for unbelievable love physically and/or emotionally. I want to sweep a grown woman off her feet. I know I can but how do I find one. Why isnt there a legit site to find such Women?
March 8th, 2008 at 5:43 pm
i have read these tips now how can i get to the site please let me know i’m interested in finding out what its like
March 11th, 2008 at 11:04 am
love the important thing in this releationship between the tow notthe mony,
April 1st, 2008 at 9:42 am
i see it as the older you get the more fun you need to have… life is only a second in the years gone by…as for me im only 24 and i am living my life to the fullest, and now i think i would love to meet an older woman and have a lil more fun. and maybe make them feel like they were 20 again. so contact me if your interested in haveing a great time.
April 4th, 2008 at 10:53 am
I am a sugarmomma and have some advice for you younguns….treat her with respect, don’t fall in love, and leave when she tells you its over.
May 29th, 2008 at 12:11 am
I have often thought this to be where I would end up(with a mature woman whom was better off than I financially). When I was younger 10-15 yrs. ago, I am 40 yrs. at present. I actually worked part time for an escort service, and had a handful of dates, over a couple year period, whereas the clients were women and paid handsomely for the expertise I posses with my tongue, would LOVE to hear any and all advice pertaining to this topic,as the internet has certainly opened up new opportunities, as I now believe maturity (not too much of it mind you) has given me my final “qualification”.
May 29th, 2008 at 3:04 pm
ive had one sugarmomma before and from my past experience you really cant fine one. you have to hope they find you. at the time i really didnt know what was going on. the person found me by searching thru profiles. at first i thought it was a friend just messing with me. i was told to set up a paypal acct and then the cash started coming thru. then i started getting packages sent to my house. and then she was gone.
June 22nd, 2008 at 1:43 am
I am looking for the right web-site to meet sugar-momma’s classifies, and links. Also where can I meet them in Las vegas. I will not visit this site again,so can you please send it to my e-mail address.
Thank you
September 20th, 2008 at 1:43 pm
I am a 28 year old male, college grad, and in good shape. I have always joked around about the idea of needing a sugarmomma, but have always had a thing for older women and money, why not combine the two…if anyone can point me in the right direction to get this rolling let me know. I can be anything you want ladies, crazy partier or mature sophisticant. You take care of me and i’ll take care of you!