Sugarmamas come in all flavors: straight, bi, and yes, gay sugarmommas!  The high-powered lady lawyer, the banker broad, even the trust fund princess could all be potential partners.  Some say, just make sure that you are in it for the long haul. There’s the classic lesbian joke:

Question: What does a lesbian bring on a second date?
Answer: A U-Haul.

While this joke is a broad stereotype, lesbian connections are often characterized as quickly becoming intimate and intense, often even more so when there is a sugarmomma-sugarbaby dynamic. Power dynamics are sexy, and money definitely affects the power balance of a relationship.

Females are classically care-givers, and generally like to take care of those around them. The lesbian community also tends to rally together. “Women, when they’re together, tend to be more cooperative.” (quote from lesbian community member in NYTimes article “My Sister’s Keeper”)

This cooperative nature may actually make it easier for lesbians to find sugarmammas.

What do you think?
Is it easier to find a lesbian sugarmomma or a straight one?
Let me know your thoughts in the comments below!

All right! Where to meet wealthy women, Part 2, continues today!
(In case you missed it, here is Part 1 on where to meet a rich woman)

You won’t find a high-class dame hanging out at a Jiffy Lube, no sir. Think you’re going to meet a sugarmama at your local discount grocery? Well, that’s just silly – no one rich is going to touch that cut-rate beef (or your cut-rate beef for that matter, if you insist on looking poor). You’ve got to go where the money is. Follow the money! Many affluent women enjoy fancy foods & luxury shopping. Here’s the lowdown on these types:

The Foodie Sugarmomma

The foodie sugarmomma’s haunts are fancy cafes, tea houses, chocolate shops, bakeries, restaurants, and high end supermarkets. Any specialty shop is a good bet. Butcher shop specializing in cows fed pure grass and shiatsu massaged daily? Check. Artisanal froufrou candy shop featuring sweets sculpted in the form of famous feminist writers? Check. Tea house specializing in oolong leaves hand picked by angelic 12-year-old albino eunuchs from blessed tea bushes in the Dalai Lama’s backyard? Well…you get the idea.

How to Approach the Rich Female Foodie
Read up on the latest food trends. Watch Alton Brown’s super-educational videos. Learn about molecular gastronomy. When you meet the foodie sugarmomma, you’ll have an arsenal of knowledge with which to attack her doughy mind – mmmmm, that sweet, sweet, doughy mind. Once you’ve been talking for a few minutes, offer her a sample of exotic chichi sweets that you carry in your man-purse for just such an occasion (bacon chocolate, salted caramel, and rose turkish delight are some favorites – interesting, but not too crazy). Once she gets that sugar rush, she’ll fall into your arms. Or into a diabetic coma. (It depends.)

The Shopping Sugarmama

The shopping sugarmama frequents high end malls & stores like Barney’s, Bloomingdale’s, and fancy boutiques. She is up on the latest fashions, and thinks nothing of throwing down thousands of dollars for the latest Manolo Blahniks (That’s a pair of shoes, guys! Quick tip: learn the names of all the designers!). If you’re lucky and become her man-pet, she’ll think nothing of throwing down beaucoup cash to dress you up, too. Get ready to rock that leather jumpsuit & diamond cock ring.

How to Approach the Shopping-Obsessed Rich Woman
Look your best. Toss your jeans off a bridge – instead, put on a pair of wool or cotton pants (no pleats! pleats are for lampshades!). Women always adore a polished man in a collared shirt, so burn all your t-shirts – or as I like to call them – sugarmama repellent! T-shirts are for babies and losers. And remember your accessories: a classic leather belt and leather dress shoes will take you further than those lame sneakers that everyone poor wears. Stand out from the crowd & spiff up a little, for god’s sake! Just dress better than a toddler, and you will have exceeded the standard outfits of 85% of men out there.

Stay tuned for part 3 in the series on Where to Meet a Wealthy Woman, coming up! Click here to subscribe to the RSS feed!

Until then, keep your eye on the prize! ;)

If you’re a man looking for a rich woman, you have to know where to begin. Get inside her head. Stop and think, “If I was a wealthy single women, what would be important to me? Where would I spend my time?”. In this series of blog posts, we’ll be talking about the the things that are important to classy women, and how you can find them. Let’s start off with two important things: Health, & Beauty. Let’s see these two categories of sugarmomma:

Health-Obsessed Sugarmomma

Wealthy women care a lot about their health: if she’s got a bunch of cash, she wants to be around long enough to spend it! So you can find potential sugarmommas at high-end health clubs, gyms, and yoga studios. Another venue is juice bars: juicing is amazing for your health, but it’s an expensive habit. Hanging out at a juice bar is more likely to snag you a wealthy lady than hanging out at a regular bar. Her defenses are down, so she will be more likely to give you a chance, you sexy beast!

How to Approach the Health-Obsessed Rich Woman
Educate yourself with the latest news in workouts and nutrition. If you can give her some tips offhand that will help her in her journey to fitness, you will peak her curiosity and she will want more. They work their bodies to look fit and fabulous, so you work your magic to show them what you’ve got to offer. Consider becoming a personal trainer or learn how to fix the form of a woman who is running or lifting weights. Many sugarmomma-sugarbaby romances have started between wealthy ladies and their personal trainers. Work it out!

Beauty-Obsessed Sugarmomma

Rich women keep up appearances. They make regular visits to high end spas & salons to maintain their manicures, pedicures, skin, hair, and lovely faces. Sephora is one particular beauty chain that is popular and expensive – you’re sure to see lots of well-off ladies there.

How to Approach the Beauty-Obsessed Rich Woman
Approach her and ask her opinion on a gift for your sister or female friend. Ask what she thinks of different perfumes. Mention that perfume smells different once it’s on the skin: you could even ask her to try a favorite on her wrist. Gently take her hand and slowly smell the perfume on her wrist. Slowly look up at her and maintain a strong gaze. This move will give you an opportunity to get close to her and tickle her arousal centers. Beautiful women are used to compliments every day, so when you first meet, don’t say tell her she’s attractive with words, say it with your body language. This will be a refreshing and very different approach, she will be sure to come back for more.

Click here to subscribe to the RSS feed – coming up soon we’ve got: Where to Meet a Rich Woman, Part 2. Believe me, you’ll want to know!

Until then, arrivederci and enjoy the rich life!

All you sugarbabies keep asking in the comments – “Where can I meet a sugarmomma of my own?”

So, I’ve gone and found a website where you find & date sugarmommas online. I like this site because:

• It’s for wealthy men and wealthy women. Most dating sites tend to be just for wealthy men. Finally, equal opportunity dating for sugarmommas!
• Members can have income, photos, and profession verified. This ensures that people are who they say they are.

It’s nice to see the beautiful quality ladies, and it’s cool because you can see much money they make, too! Check it out.

Click here to find a sugarmomma now!

Have you ever imagined what the perfect sugarmomma is like? If not, how will you know when she comes along?

By visualizing her, you will attract resources, people, and energy to help you make that goal a reality. When you envision your ideal lady, life has an amazing way of delivering results. So, imagine:

Age: Is she in her 50′s? Or her 20′s?

Body: Is she thin as a rail? Or a BBW?

Height: Is she statuesque and elegant? Or petite and cute?

Personality: Is she a wild party girl? Or a cool sophisticate?

Aggresion: Is she dominating? Or quiet and submissive?

I’d love to hear about your ideal sugarmomma. Add your comment below.

Beyonce makes it clear as day. In her song “Suga Mama”, she’s giving you the following 5 tips for finding a sugarmama. It starts with…

#1. BE HER DREAM.
Beyonce lyrics: Whatever I get you putting it on, Don’t give me no lip let mama do it all
When your sugarmama buys you something, wear it! She wants her sugarbaby to look a certain way – a way that accesses her personal fantasies. Then…

#2. PLAY WITH CONTROL.
Beyonce lyrics: Come sit on mama lap, hey
The reversed traditional power dynamic with sugarmamas and sugarbabies is hot. At times, let her take the lead with money and sex. Next…

#3. SEDUCE HER MIND.
Beyonce lyrics: Just the thought of making love to you, Dropping everything that’s what I’ll do
Seed her with sexy thoughts throughout the day. She’ll be hot-and-ready when she picks you up in her stretch Hummer. Then…

#4. BE A SHOW OFF.
Beyonce lyrics: Whatever I get you putting it on, Now take it off while I watch you perform
Strut your stuff. Put on a striptease performance that will make her crave you and tackle you into bed! Then you’ll…

#5. SATISFY HER.
Beyonce lyrics: It’s so good to the point that I’d do anything to keep you home
When your sugamama wants to keep you home, make her satisfy you. Then give her back 4x the pleasure. I’m telling you…

Beyonce is your personal guide to sugarbabydom!

Good for your ex-fiancée, and good for you, Jeremy. Having a sugarmama or sugardaddy is a responsible way to get your finances in shape. And it’s way more fun than clipping coupons!

As for reuniting with your ex, anything is possible. Though, if you want to increase your odds of success, improving your financial status will help. Nothing is sexier to a woman than the words, “Check out my stock portfolio, sweet thang.”

So, go ahead. With the help of a lovely sugarmomma, you could soon have a whole range of mutual funds, real estate, and stock. And that increases your value to all women. People are animals: they go after the tastiest option, whether that’s aged beef or young veal. Either way, we gotta eat.

“I would really like to hook my husband up with someone. I want him to be happy and spoiled I just don’t have to finances to keep up the life style he deserves. I love to see him with other women as much as he loves to see me with them. We just live in such a rural area it is hard to find anyone that is open minded. could you recommend a web site?” – Mrs. Kevin

Great question, Mrs. Kevin. You’ll find your salvation here. Many wives out there wish they could give their husband the life he deserves. Finding him a sugarmomma is a great solution. However, a sugarmomma might have trouble sharing her sugar-baby-dude. What’s the answer? Meet a rich couple and swap partners.

This is a great way to stymie potential jealousies and tantrums. When a rich couple and a poor couple swap partners, everyone gets to play.

Income disparity is a wonderful built-in power dynamic. You and your husband can emphasize this by dressing in matching butler and maid outfits while you perform sex acts with the rich couple (on their part, they could wear furs, silks, and gold chains).

This is a wonderful way to jumpstart a marriage that is in a rut.

Good luck! Tell me how it goes.

A sugarmomma needs a man with class. How do you do this without saying a word? One of the places you can show your class status is in the bathroom. You definitely need something that will stand out, and say, “Here lives a man of elegance and sophistication.”

Enter: black toilet paper.

Boom. Message received.

So, I’m getting some feedback from incoming googlers that Sugarmomma.com should, in fact, be all about sugarmommas and how young hot dudes can find a rich lady to take care of them.

AskMen.com has an interesting article on the subject. It mainly says that if you want to find a hot rich older lady to take care of you:

1. Be hot
2. Be fit
3. Embody a sense of fun and youth
4. Balance that with an aura of maturity
5. Make her feel special
6. Don’t dwell on her wealth

I’m sure there are guys who naturally gravitate towards these behaviors. The rest of you potential sugar-baby-dudes, it looks like, will have to practice these behaviors. It’s a combination of:

• having drive
• to find a sugarmomma in her natural habitat where other rich folk hang out
• luck
• to find an individual sugarmomma who desires this arrangement
• to find a sugarmomma who likes you
• to find a sugarmomma who you like
• the correct psychology
• to give your sugarmomma what she needs (psychologically, socially, sexually, etc.)
• to not feel emasculated by being supported by a woman

As for the morality of a sugarmomma/sugardaddy situation, if both parties are clear on the relationship’s expectations, I see nothing wrong with it. I’m sure some of these relationships go smoothly, and some are rocky as hell. Managing a relationship is generally a difficult endeavor, especially when your efforts are not driven by love (though, some people could be driven by a pure love of money).

Any sugar-baby-dudes out there? I’d love to hear your sugar-baby-dude input.